Cougar Dating Statistics – Could You Be Next?

As I analysis the subject of older girls courting youthful males, I’m considerably shocked to see some statistics flowing from “throughout the pond” within the UK in addition to right here in the USA. Gleaning the next from the BBC and NBC Community Information, I felt it vital to share them with you. It appears as if the Cougar “craze” is greater than only a mania. It seems that girls who’re older are additionally reaching past simply establishing management of their careers. They’re branching out to shamelessly embrace their ardour for all times and for having fun with it with a person who can sustain with them and stimulate them out and in of the boudoir. For these naysayers who inform me {that a} youthful man is “simply out for intercourse” and will not critically contemplate marriage to an older girls (I hear this most from older males who’re threatened by these younger bucks) these stats might be an eye fixed opener?

30% of all girls match the invoice of being a Cougar girl.
35% of girls not at present courting choose youthful males.
34% of girls 40+ date youthful males.
17% of girls of their 50’s choose males of their 40’s.
25% of older British girls are married to youthful males.
(Sources: BBC documentary: “Sugar Mummies”. The At present Present, NBC, November 21, 2009)

Older males who’re threatened by the youthful males muscling in on their territory say that youthful males solely need older girls for intercourse and monetary safety. For those who take a look at the primary causes youthful girls date older males, the argument could be made that they need the older males for monetary safety. The older males need the youthful girls for intercourse. Older males declare that marriages between youthful males and older girls will not final. Maybe they may final simply so long as the marriages between older males and youthful girls do. The distinction is, the intercourse might be higher for the older girl; or as a Cougar stated to me, “My ex husband was 70 years outdated after we divorced. If I’m going to have intercourse with a person, it may be with a person whose pores and skin nonetheless matches him!”

I suppose whether it is okay with the older males that youthful girls need them for what they’ll present, then why should not it’s okay with them that youthful males need older girls for a lot of the identical factor? I suppose it bothers these males to know that older girls have extra to supply a youthful man: maturity, confidence, sensuality, sexuality, monetary stability, perspective, and the libido of an older girl most carefully matches that of the youthful man. This will’t essentially be stated concerning the older man; until in fact, he’s popping Viagra.

Older girls know extra of what they need and do not play the video games youthful girls do. I seek the advice of with hundreds of women and men they usually often inform me that the match up between them is far more fulfilling on many ranges (not simply intercourse, however hey- it sweetens the equation) than relationships with males their age.

Older girls say they discover their eyes wandering when a good-looking, younger man comes strolling by and they’re out with somebody their age or older. They take a look at their eating companion and assume,” Will I be operating to the drug retailer to purchase him Relies upon in 5 years?” They take a look at the deep wrinkles in his pores and skin, discover the yellow/grey of his tooth and receding hairline, marvel if he’s going to have the ability to sustain with them on the climbing path or dancing until daybreak after which their thoughts wanders off to the person 20 years their junior who passionately kissed them within the doorway at midnight whereas they strolled alongside the boardwalk.

They inform me they marvel at occasions why they resisted courting youthful males for therefore lengthy. They discounted them resulting from their age. It wasn’t till they began to actually get to know a few of these youthful males that they realized that a lot of them have the maturity and knowledge of males who’re older and gravitate towards older girls with whom they really feel they’ve one thing in widespread.

Selecting a youthful man to this point isn’t any totally different from selecting a person your age or older to this point. You continue to have the identical standards, you simply search for it in a youthful bundle. Even a person aged 50 could be immature, obtuse and boring. What a person is at 50, he was at 25, so do not assume simply because a person is youthful that he’ll match the invoice.

However when you do defy your individual ageism bias and exit with just a few youthful males, it’s possible you’ll be pleasantly shocked at how a lot you even have in widespread. The appropriate youthful man for you can be delicate, enjoyable, communicative, listener, a powerful shoulder and give you devotion and fervour that you’ll have longed for however couldn’t discover in somebody whose attitudes had been formed within the 60’s and 70’s.

Who is aware of? It’s possible you’ll simply wind up one other very glad Cougar statistic!

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